Dating Drama: Crush Is Taken
When it comes to dating, it can sometimes be a tricky thing. Especially when you don’t know how the other person feels about you. Because let’s face it, rejection is a hard pill to swallow.
For me, this topic has been the story of my life for years. I always seem to fall for the wrong guys. Or I wait too long to confess my feelings. Having said that, it is not always easy. Sometimes your timing may be off to tell them how you feel. Or maybe they only see you as a friend. Which may result in you being stuck in the friendzone.
Now let’s all face it, being stuck in the friendzone sucks. Especially if you have really deep feelings for this person. But then again, what can you really do about it. You can’t force them to like you back. I mean some may argue you can, but honestly it’s not worth it. It’s better to have someone who likes you back equally. Because then you will know, that the feelings are mutual.
When it all boils to it, you have to honest with yourself. Are you willing to wait for them?. Even in the chance that they become single again. Because truthfully you may never know when that is going to happen. It can happen next month, next year, or even years down the line.
Also, think about your friendship. If you guys are really good friends, would you want to change the dynamics of your relationship? I mean don’t get me wrong, not every relationship that starts out as friendship ends badly. But then again, you still have to think about these things.
So when it comes to the question of what you should do, I would say take it day by day. Continue to be their friend as long as you can. Don’t expect anything more or less because the future is still uncertain. Always remember to work on yourself first, and everything else will fall into place. Know that it is not the end of the world and there are more fish in the sea. If this crush doesn’t work out, move on to the next and be happy. Don’t wait around for someone that you are not sure of because you could be missing out on someone great.